My last visit to “the home” was one of the best. Bubie was in a good mood and eating her lunch something she often does not do. We laughed till we cried. I took video of her reciting some of her favorite recipes. We took a stroll down memory lane and spoke about her family.
When speaking of the family my mother asked her about her mother. A person she is “dying” to see again. And, Bubie went from smiling one minute to being very serious the next. “Where is my mother?” she asked. “Is she gone?” she asked. My mother nodded her head, “yes, she’s gone.” Bubie said, “I’m sorry” but before we let her finish her sentence we changed the subject back to some of her favorite recipes.
We took her back to her room where we helped her lay down in her bed and then said our goodbyes.
I am thankful that I was able to get video and thankful that I was able to make some more happy memories with her in them.
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In October of 2011 I began documenting my visits to the Delmar Gardens Nursing Home in Chesterfield, Missouri where my grandmother made her home after a diagnosis of Alzheimers. What I found was a lot of drama that at times made me laugh, cry, and often shake my head in disbelief. This blog series tells a story that you may be able to relate to if not now then perhaps one day. What I witnessed proved to me that love is the best medicine.
Friday, January 10, 2014
Happier Times.................... (More Nursing Home Drama)
01-07-2013 at 02:19 PM
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